In sleep, our subconscious isn't selective - it doesn't disregard
what we are shown or what we hear.
Spirit
often communicate this way so that we aren't forming judgements or dismissing vital information.
If
you have a vivid and positive (must stress the positive part here!) conversation with a loved one who has crossed
over, don't dismiss it as fantasy - it is real!
Any
dreams of negativity or criticism from a loved one or a scary setting is just the mind trying to process grief.
If
you can remember details such as where you were (surroundings, smells), what was happening, what your loved one was wearing
when they appeared in your dream, then you have been blessed with a real visit.
Having
said this, you must ignore any dreams where your loved one was angry, disappointed or other negative aspects prevail, as this
is just your subconscious mind acting up in the grieving process.
It
is a "Spirit commandment " that they never come to you with negativity.
Dream
Visits (as I call them) are a privilege "granted " to those Spirit who feel you need to hear something so important that it
must come from them direct.
These
visits often don't make absolute sense at the time, nor does their point seem relevant or important, but all becomes clearer
when you are ready to accept the information. And sometimes they may feel it is of mighty importance that we just need to
see their smile or be reminded of their laugh.
And
don't dismiss trivia being discussed either, it is not always earth moving news or pearls of wisdom that are imparted,
sometimes you just feel an overwhelming surge of love from them as they smile silently at you.
You
can't put a price on these visits so take them for what they are when they happen, gifts from Spirit.
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